Long-distance relationships pose unique challenges that can sometimes be difficult or even impossible to overcome. A desire to get creative and focus on building intimacy, however, can help you conquer these most common obstacles.
Sex in a long-distance relationship is a difficult thing to enjoy together. Luckily, sex toys have eliminated some of the boundaries, allowing couples to enjoy intimate moments together and even interact with each other.
Here are some of the top things you can do with sex toys to feel more sexually connected in your long-distance relationship.
Try Interactive Toys
Internet connectivity and interactive sex toys allow two people to have sex together, even if they’re located on opposite ends of the world.
Interactive sex toys are really cool – they can be controlled from any location that has internet access. Two people in a long-distance relationship can easily pair their interactive toys and swap controls. One will be adjusting the settings of the other’s toy and vice versa.
There are even toys allowing people to sync their experiences and feel whatever their partner is feeling.
Technology has made just about everything possible in the realm of sexual togetherness. The best aspect of using such toys is that the technology has already become mainstream and affordable. Most people can invest in interactive sex toys and well-made items will keep on delivering for years to come.
Exploring Fantasies on Camera
Even if you don’t have the budget to invest in high-tech sex toys, there are still ways to enjoy sexy sessions with a partner.
All sex toys can be used to have quality sex together if you have internet and a camera.
Regardless of location, the two of you have the option to explore sex fantasies or new types of kinks together. Getting something as simple as fantasy dildo sex toys allows for deeper and more meaningful sexual exploration.
Doing stuff in front of the camera for your partner to enjoy may feel a bit awkward at first. Start out simple. Getting undressed or using fingers to pleasure yourself will give you some idea about the various aspects of the experience. In time, you’ll start feeling more comfortable in front of the cam and you’ll get to take these experiments to a whole new level.
Dare Each Other in Public
Using sex toys together in the privacy of your bedrooms is one thing. Exploring public play is a whole different ball game.
Wearable vibrators and eggs, as well as butt plugs and other penetrative toys are often designed for public use. Many of them are really small and comfortable and the noise produced is completely inobtrusive.
One thing you can try with a long-distance partner is having a wearable vibe on your body when you leave home. Give your lover access to the controls. You’ll spend the entire day in delicious anticipation. You’ll never know when they will turn the vibe on and when they’ll dial things up to a maximum.
Public play is super-hot and exciting for both parties involved.
You’ll need to put your crazy pants on, especially if you’re taking a wearable vibe to the office. This kind of public play, however, will let you create the types of memories that act as the strongest relationship glue. In the end of such an experience, you’ll feel more connected than ever before.
Send Each Other Surprise Packages
Show your partner how much you care by sending a surprise erotic package.
It can feature lots of amazing things – a new sex toy, some of your naughtiest picks, a sex game you can play together or some erotic cards.
Having such a package delivered will remind your partner why you’re so special. It will also build anticipation for an activity that you’ll get to enjoy together later on. You don’t need to do something crazy or very kinky to build intimacy with sex toys in a long-distance relationship. Just consider your preferences and likes. Also, focus on the stuff that you miss doing with another human being. Prioritizing such considerations will help you pick the items that will contribute to the most meaningful intimacy enhancement.